As a woman in my twenties, I’ve spent a lot of time grappling with a particular phrase I hear all too often: “You’re too sensitive.” It’s the go-to response whenever I react to something someone says or does that rubs me the wrong way. At first, I’d internalise it, questioning myself. Was I really overreacting? Was I just being dramatic? But after some introspection, and a little bit of courage to stand my ground, I’ve come to realise something important: Maybe I’m not too sensitive. Maybe you’re just dickhead.

Life in your 20s is like being handed a blank page and a dozen pens, with everyone shouting different things you "should" write down. It’s exhilarating, overwhelming, and, if we're being honest, messy. Somewhere in this chaos, I’ve realised one thing: emotional intelligence isn’t just a skill—it’s survival.

Dating apps: a love-hate relationship for most of us, right? I mean, where else can you feel like both a goddess and a leftover banana at the same time? As a 20-something woman who has done her fair share of swiping (yes, I’ve been ghosted, super-liked, and even matched with my high school chemistry teacher… yikes), I’ve learned a few things about crafting the perfect dating profile. So grab a glass of wine (or iced coffee if it’s before noon), and let’s dive into how you can level up your profile and turn swipes into something more than just, "Hey, how’s it going?"

There’s something magical about stepping into the night as a 20-something woman. The air feels electric, the possibilities endless, and my confidence radiates from the perfect combination of my favorite dress and that red lipstick I save for "just because" occasions. I’ve learned to embrace these nights not just for the fun, but for the unapologetic way they allow me to reclaim my power, my sensuality, and my laughter.

The Older Man, the desired figure in every twenty something girls life. Whether you’re searching for your thirty something boyfriend, or your 50 something husband, every 20-something woman has found herself sat in the passenger seat of said older mans car. And if you haven’t, buckle up babe, it’s a wild ride.

"What do I even want to do with my life?"—one thing I’ve learned is that having a solid group of friends is non-negotiable. These friendships are like a girls wardrobe: if done right, timeless staples that last a lifetime.

In today’s dating climate,I find myself walking away from relationships with men who seem so perfect on paper. They’re kind, smart, emotionally available, funny… pretty much everything I could want in a partner. So why do I feel like I’m making a huge mistake every time I decide to cut things off?

It’s heartbreaking, that moment when everyone’s having fun without you, and suddenly, your comfy little world doesn’t seem so cozy anymore. It’s easy to think you’re missing out on something huge, something essential to your happiness or to your friendships. But maybe this whole FOMO thing is overrated.

The Divide: Coupledom vs. Singlehood. In your 20s, life often feels like a tug-of-war between two very distinct factions: couples and singles. While they may both seem to share a common stage—living in the same world, experiencing the same social circles—there is an invisible war that simmers beneath the surface. It's a battle that is often unspoken but deeply felt.

In my early twenties, I’ve found myself asking this question more times than I can count. Should I hold on to the bitterness, or do I just move on and let it go for the sake of my peace? And the truth is, I’ve learned that forgiveness isn’t a one-size-fits-all answer. It’s not a simple choice between being a doormat or being "too cold" to let people in. Forgiveness is a journey that’s more about me than the person who hurt me, and it’s a lot more complex than I thought.

Dating in your 20s can feel like an emotional rollercoaster. One minute you’re texting someone new and feeling that excited spark, the next you’re wondering if they’re ghosting you or just not that into it. As someone who’s been there (and still is), I’ve learned a lot about how to navigate the ups and downs, and I’m here to share what I’ve picked up along the way.